Real world, real life.

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Do you ever feels so disappoint? Of course we are. We are just an ordinary human. We have a feeling inside of our body. We can feels happy, shy, mad, and of course we can hurt and feels dissapoint.

What I want to say in this posting is about dissapoint and hurts. 

When we were hurted or dissapointed, the fault is not always in somebody else, but this feeling can be caused by our self. Don't blame anyone else because they didn't do the same like what you want, but blaming yourself for hoping they will do the same like what you want. 

You just should stop to blaming peoples arround you. It's not the person who's make you dissapointed, but the fact they didn't do the same like your expectation did. You must think before you blaming them.

Have you ever think? Expect too much is the reason why we're hurt by somebody else. When you didn't expect, then you'll never care about it and you'll never get hurt. You just can't expect too much from somebody. Because this is a real world, and this is a real life. And the real world and real life isn't always be the same like what you expecting. 

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